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作者: gifthoney 時間: 12-2-27 19:36 標題: Self-caring of primary school kids

People nowadays say that HK kids are weak in self-caring.  I just wonder what is the normal ability of a normal kid.  Would you please share at what age will your kids do the following?

1.  take a bath on their own
2.  wash hair on their own
3.  tie shoelaces
4.  clean "pat pat" after "boo boo"
5.  tidy up school bag
6.  cook rice using a rice cooker
7.  cook an instant noodle

Thanks for sharing.

作者: Yanamami 時間: 12-2-27 19:53

My daughter has just turned 8 this Jan.

1. K3, 5yrs old.
2. P1, 6 yrs old.
3. P1, 6 yrs old.
4. K3, 5 yrs old.
5. K3, 5 yrs old.
6. 7 1/2 yrs old.
7. not yet.

作者: 仔仔錫錫你 時間: 12-2-27 22:24

阿仔5歲多dd
1. 4.5歲
2. 4歲
3. 5歲
4. 4.5歲
5. 4.5歲
6. 4歲
7. 未試

加多3樣
8. 掃地拖地 3歲多
9. 開洗衣机，涼衫＋摺衫 3.5歲
10. 食飯開／收檯 3.5歲

作者: HTLT 時間: 12-2-28 09:45

My son (aged 8 this year):

1. K3
2. K3
3. P1
4. K3
5. P1
6. not yet
7. not yet
8. P1
9. not yet
10. P1 (clear the table only)

My daughter (aged 5 this year)
can do 4. only
+ 自行煎蛋
幫工人手切野、、涼衫、摺衫
囡比較鍾意做家務

作者: judymama 時間: 12-2-28 14:07 標題: 引用：阿仔5歲多dd1.+4.5歲2.+4歲+3.+5歲4.+4.5歲

原帖由 仔仔錫錫你 於 12-02-27 發表
阿仔5歲多dd
1. 4.5歲
2. 4歲

作者: YLMom 時間: 12-2-28 18:19

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Hi 仔仔錫錫你, your son is very smart and can do so many things. Do you mind sharing which school he will join finally?

作者: Mighty 時間: 12-2-29 11:07

香港KIDS無自理能力、我相信大部分是因為有工人貼身跟住、所以才養成不自理的習慣、要做的時候、我相信一定做到的。　　只要父母出声叫工人不要太貼身就OK。　　我反而看到很多小朋友没有EATING MANNERS、状況厳重、如狼呑虎嚥、又或者食野時不合口、発出声音。　　EATING　MANNERS真係靠家教、父母責任。　壊習慣形成了、好難改。　　

作者: gifthoney 時間: 12-2-29 19:14

"香港KIDS無自理能力、我相信大部分是因為有工人貼身跟住、所以才養成不自理的習慣、要做的時候、我相信一定做到的。"

Agree!! It is not a matter of ability, but a matter of habit. So I guess the kids from those families without a domestic helper will be more independent. But the fact is, most families nowadays hire a domestic helper. And, parents usually ask the helper to serve the kid (otherwise it seems that the helper is not playing her role.) As a result, the kids have no chance to learn to be independent.

作者: madscientist 時間: 12-2-29 21:45

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作者: Mighty 時間: 12-2-29 22:59

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無工人根本無得依頼、就算有、都係看父母点安排、有Ｄ「小朋友」根本身形巨形過印印、但係一落校車就比個書包個工人、有時真係看不過眼、、、、。

上面有人説３歳人仔就做家務、都係貪玩多、非常可愛、如果将来ＫＥＥＰ住就好了。

作者: gifthoney 時間: 12-3-1 11:45

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" We need random samples. Here, those who have P6 kids who cannot tie their shoe laces will NOT answer your questions. " Agree.

So, if we wish to know the normal ability of kids based on their development, is there any reference from a better survey (e.g. by Government? by child health authorities?)

作者: Mighty 時間: 12-3-1 14:02

過到自己関、就OK　LA.　　不用着意SURVEY　LA。　　都応該係COMMON　SENSE。　　以前我７、８歳用火水炉煮面、亜MA話OK。　　宜家一定比人話無危険意識。　　毎個家庭都有把尺、総之 common sense.

作者: ppsfung 時間: 12-3-1 16:44

Your kids seems more smart then mine.

My daughter - 7 years P.2

1.  take a bath on their own  ==> 6 year
2.  wash hair on their own ==> 6.5 years (long hair)
3.  tie shoelaces ==> learn at K.3 but no chance to practice , I guess not yet
4.  clean "pat pat" after "boo boo"  ==> 5.5 year (summer holiday before P.1)
5.  tidy up school bag  ==> P.1
6.  cook rice using a rice cooker  ==> not yet
7.  cook an instant noodle  ==> not yet

因屋企灶位較高,囡囡高度未夠, 我暫時無打算比佢學煮食.... 等佢身高150cm 以上才考慮比佢用火和熱水.

其他家務:
洗碗 : 5.5 yr
摺衫 : 5 yr
晒衫 (把濕衫掛入衣架+ 衣夾) : 5 yr
摺被: 7 yr

作者: 仔仔錫錫你 時間: 12-3-2 23:54

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阿仔唔叻, 只係我地肯放手比佢做, 基本上14個月大我地已經要佢收拾玩具(工人不可幫手), 所以在家中他是最有"手尾"的人. 就算趕住出街佢都會堅持先收拾玩具. 依家每個月都會自己走去洗波鞋及更換床單! 講真, 呢d事個個小朋友都做到, 只係父母覺得有工人又何必要自己動手咁傻! 有時間不如上多幾個英文/公文數/國語重好!

讀邊間小一無謂講喇, 只可以說有幸入到我們最心儀的dss 龍校. 不過我地仍會努力去叩某村校, 好讓兩兄妹可一同讀書方便照顧(妹妹讀緊n2). 現在考慮應否考劍橋試作提高叩門機會,因不想大細辛苦.

作者: 仔仔錫錫你 時間: 12-3-3 00:07

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係呀佢地真係玩架! 好似開洗衣机，涼衫＋摺衫每星期最少玩兩次, 玩左差不多近2年, 玩左無200次都一定有180次以上, 睇怕重會玩多2年先停手. 講開又講, 女仔真係比男仔細心d, 妹妹每次涼衫前都會先把衫反好才涼衫(無人教佢咁做), 哥哥只會摺衫時才會把衫反好.

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