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	5872

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發表於 11-11-17 16:03 |只看該作者

培正特別多超大仔,學校對收生有準則,如果真係收左你個仔,証明培正覺得你個仔適合讀,每個人想法都不同,你是否真正喜歡培正?你了解培正嗎?聽聞培正小學的家長花很多時間在學業上,只差0.5分,名次也可以跌4,5名,你可以應付這些來自家長互相競爭比較的壓力嗎?你的孩子是受教型嗎?(如果不是,上小學入培正會很辛苦嗎?)
我建議你應從孩子性格和能力去選擇合適的學校,注意沒有"所謂的名校,只有適合你的學校"

原帖由 haydenden1023 於 11-11-17 09:45 發表

很好的分享, 我B係0810, 而家讀緊K1, 好開心
不過我今年都有報培正, 因為上年無得報
如果...只係如果培正收左
你又會唔會建議讀呢?

或者其他家長你地又會點睇..
謝謝 ...

[ 本帖最後由 anteater 於 11-11-17 16:07 編輯 ]

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	1571

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發表於 11-11-17 22:25 |只看該作者

係bk會聽到一d細b成功的例子,同時亦有d興幸repeat 左做大b的mami,佢地的經驗只可作參考但未必可apply到係你身上,因為環境和小朋友發展/能力不會一樣,所以只有你自己才會最清楚自己小朋友,問題係除非所讀的kg很深或小朋友明顯的追不上,k1/k2的評估很難會知道小朋友的能力可否應付小一,我可說自己就要放比較多一些的時間在囡囡的學業上,但5一定有相等的回報,選做細b就要預埋lei樣野.

[ 本帖最後由 pandabonita 於 11-11-17 22:27 編輯 ]

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	4332

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發表於 11-11-17 22:52 |只看該作者

If you read more books on parenting, you will find that all experts suggest boys should be big boys if there is such option. They draw this conclusion based on a lot of studies and real cases. My family members are teachers and they all agree that we should let the kids 足齡入學。因為體能和䐉部的發展爭少少就係爭少少，再講，跟本很多年前，九月後出世的小朋友是要遲一年入學的，但後來才放寬了，讓家長多個選擇。如果小朋友智力和體能兩方面都比他人優秀很多，做細仔當然可以，否則，點解唔俾佢自小開始輕鬆地學習？

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	1438

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發表於 11-11-17 23:10 |只看該作者

今日同朋友講開, 她說有朋友的囝囝就係 repeat 左k1 , 轉了另一間幼稚園, 個小朋友因為曾讀學過, 感覺 d 野太淺, 變得好鬆散....渾渾噩噩左 1 年, 所以 repeat 的話便要睇小朋友性格...

我囝囝都係細 b, 都諗緊點好.......

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	4332

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發表於 11-11-17 23:20 |只看該作者

有校長說repeat K2比較好,因k2多啲嘢學，而且可以考好啲成績攞去考小學。最好就K2時轉去一間較深的學校，或教科書完全唔同嘅學校，咁就唔會悶。不過話說回來，K2的學位緊張，所以repeat K1可能較穩陣。


	2589

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發表於 11-11-18 00:41 |只看該作者

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	357

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發表於 11-11-18 00:42 |只看該作者

我個女都係12月，我揀左做大B, 而且無比佢讀N, 讀書條路咁慢長，一開始左就要讀十幾廿年。不如遲一年玩多一年先啦！
我唔信遲一年入學會影響佢將來揾錢同揾老公嘅能力囉！

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	1348

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發表於 11-11-18 02:01 |只看該作者

其實做大仔OR細仔，視乎你想他將來入讀什麼類型小學。如果是直資，仲要名牌，一定是大仔優勝。如果將來只是大抽獎，便細仔都沒有問題。

我個女都係12月，我都揀左比她做大B，希望她在幼稚園階段開開心心，不要一起步便落後他人。無論入到什麼小學都不緊要，因為我相信她一定有自信去面對所有事情，不單只是學業上跟得上。

我都是過來人，我都是一名大B，雖然中小學階段會覺得自已大過其他同學。入到大學，什麼年紀的同學都有，其實都沒有什麼所謂。

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	4332

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發表於 11-11-18 09:36 |只看該作者

I think even if you don't mind what primary school your kid go to, it is always good to let him be a Big Boy, coz he will grow up confidently. He will be physically and mentally ready for what he needs to learn at school. He don't need to always try to 'catch up' with the others. It will create a huge pressure on him if he feels that he is often behind the others. Does this feeling feel good? Of course not...

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	912

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發表於 11-11-18 09:40 |只看該作者

自信心重要過一切，終生受用！

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	4332

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發表於 11-11-18 09:52 |只看該作者

Yes, my sister is a primary school teacher and she saw many cases of small b. They are often lack of confidence and even when they are P6, some of them are still behind, coz they have grown up without confidence. Very often in a P6 class, the top students tend to be the older kids and the bottom students tend to be the small kids. (of course there are rare cases of exceptions)
This implies that their level of confidence affect much on their development. Also, even if you think your small b is smarter than the others, you have to consider their physical development too. There are a lot of sports activities in school and their capability affect very much their self image. Only if your small b is both physically and mentally advanced than the others, you may consider letting him be small b, especially boys.

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	2570

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發表於 11-11-18 10:21 |只看該作者

我以前都分唔開大仔細仔爭幾遠....
今年我個小朋友返n班........
其中一個係大仔, 佢架表現簡直係no. 1, 好快反應, 同埋井井有條, 坐定定, 未上堂時自己係度讀英文, 簡直吾敢想像同一班......
當老師問問題時好快有反應, 當然好得老師歡心啦...
其實真係好著數, 到老師要評估表現時......吾會因為佢年幾會減低架, 所以一定會好好成績........

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	912

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發表於 11-11-18 10:32 |只看該作者

其實如果學校有觀課堂, 家長一定要去睇小朋友上堂情況, 就可以睇到小朋友有冇自信心, 明明係d野小朋友係識晒,點解佢一d都唔熱心舉手答問題, 只係望住其他小朋友做野...
成日見d家長話將repeat留返日後先用, 我想講日後小朋友長大,有自尊心,有自己既睇法...重讀比佢地大同學小小既打擊會更大啦...
教書朋友都說小學repeat,其實對個小朋友既正面影響不大, 學業成績唔見會大躍進, 反見自信心大大受挫, 更何況津校根本唔比重讀呢!!
點解唔比小朋友細細建立好自信心,讀得輕輕鬆鬆...

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	912

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發表於 11-11-18 10:34 |只看該作者

學校有咩表演比賽大b機會都會多d...

原帖由 whychan777 於 11-11-18 10:21 發表
我以前都分唔開大仔細仔爭幾遠....
今年我個小朋友返n班........
其中一個係大仔, 佢架表現簡直係no. 1, 好快反應, 同埋井井有條, 坐定定, 未上堂時自己係度讀英文, 簡直吾敢想像同一班......
當老師問問題時好快有 ...

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	2274

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發表於 11-11-18 13:44 |只看該作者

回覆 28# WCYH 的文章

讚同, 我小囡在moral上比較不佳,


	2589

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發表於 11-11-18 22:58 |只看該作者

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	204

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發表於 11-11-18 23:08 |只看該作者

12月做大仔啦，我個囝都係12月，佢係大仔，真係比其他小朋友叻d架

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發表於 11-11-19 00:18 |只看該作者

回復 36# ting-ma 的帖子

依家係講緊9-12月出世嘅小朋友可以揀做大b定細b。而7-8月嘅小朋友係現在嘅制度下係冇得選擇，所以必須去面對。

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	8095

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發表於 11-11-19 00:34 |只看該作者

睇完大家講既野都覺得各有各o岩.
我兩個都係十月B, 仔仔叻, 做細B ok. 女女真係差dd, 但做大的話我又真係覺得太大...

都識得d repeat k1的小朋友話好悶,我都覺得係一個問題.

好矛盾, 我選擇自己努力d谷下佢... 但返工媽媽真係好難抽時間. catch up係辛苦, 但唔想就咁放棄.

我估大部份人選擇repeat, 都係唔想大家都辛苦?

或者咁諗, 考到好學校就值得repeat啦, 係咪?

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	4332

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發表於 11-11-19 00:35 |只看該作者

ting-ma,

Yes, I understand your point. There will be someone being the youngest in a class anyway. It is just that if there is a choice, try not to let him be the youngest (again, except that he is super advanced in physical and mental development). Second, the syllabus was originally designed for children at a certain age, e.g. in Hong Kong, for example, P1 program was originally designed for children above 6 years old. Sometimes a difference of 2 months would make a difference. Why would we push the kid from day 1 and why not we let them learn what they are capable to learn? Especially if yours is a boy, then I believe it is a good decision to let him be a big boy.

I let my son study in PN when he just reached 2 and now he is in K2. I feel that if I really want him to be a big b, it is time to make the decision, so I have decided to let him repeat K2. If I could make my decision all over again, I might let him attend playgroups only and then attend PN class as a big boy. I still remember he cried for many weeks when he began to go to school. Now when I look back, I feel that I could have made a better decision.

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