Sorry I just pass by and don't know your background but hey pls calm down.
Life is full of ups and downs. Don't be put back by this! Maybe they are really full.
Think this way. What's the likely outocme of your kid in 20 years time?
It's likely that he/ she may have already graduated from university!
Set a positive example for your kid and keep it up. All the best with your school hunt!