考咗咁多間一間都冇..... - 小一選校

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有依條thread真好....我唔要多, 一個offer就夠啦..

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albert831 百鳥在林，不如一鳥在手。發表於 12-10-31 10:52

albert831 雙鳥在林不如一鳥在手發表於 12-10-31 10:52

carolmum agreed!!! 發表於 12-10-28 01:13

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like!! want to cry too!

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十分同意一間就夠，但個遊戲唔比咁玩
九月頭比二間直资reject左，到月中有一間私小offer（九龍塘行IB個間），八千學费加校巴……一皮個月根本讀唔起，但在冇offer在手之下大家心情都明，交唔交留位？
十月頭另一間三線女私小，二千幾學费校風oK有中學直上但中文小學，交唔交留位？又唔比遲D交，拖拖拖到last day 才交！
到上星期才有目標一條龍直資英小offer就收工，報左都冇去in。（除左陳守仁 2nd in）
真係好難玩，努力！

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carolmum 你算好啦!!!咁快可以收工! 發表於 12-10-28 01:15

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引用：Quote:原帖由+lui+於+12-10-23+發表我認谷

原帖由 HelicopterDad 於 12-10-24 發表
我以下所講並不是計對你表姐個女，請勿誤會。不過我想講其實小朋友5歲好多potential都未show哂出來，而且只 ...

我絕對同意，品德和品行是用時間建立和身教。在某些特別的場合，無利益関你下閒談或八掛，學校是有特定比例配額收生，六成學術，二成品德，二成関係。
每年的考生有九成多是以學術組別競爭入學。
當發現和覺得品行合格，只要學術合格或中上，都必收。就算是候補生都是優先的。
到最後二成関係，你自己想想。如你是可以奉獻，推廣名聲，名門望族，政治權貴，都是必收生。

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Agree only extreme cases will drag over Q2 next year. In fact, some parents have yet received rejection or offer letters at this stage. Those schools have just (or not even) started 2nd round interview. I understand the picture will be more clear by end of Dec/ Jan. (perhaps the system is not fair to this group of parents who need to wait long to know the results :)

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引用：Quote:原帖由+HelicopterDad+於+12-10-24+

原帖由 sampapa 於 12-10-26 發表
我絕對同意，品德和品行是用時間建立和身教。在某些特別的場合，無利益関你下閒談或八掛，學校是有特定比例 ...

我惗既係另一個方向。學校pre-req左學生一定要乖同合群，跟住要有基本能力，（不一定要識rocket science,因為大部分都係叫細路們答下簡單生活問題同最多simple academic questions). 其他就係in嗰個老師既主觀判斷話呢個doy入唔入2nd in或收唔收。至於你講嗰D"必收生".....唔會啩，香港冇兩成咁多人係名門望族噃。我亦想講唔好淨係睇重學術，事實係我地並冇谷個仔喺呢方面，每次都係打天才波，極其量我只係話比佢聽我估陣間老師會點同佢傾計。反而重估錯多！不過我地每次都括達面對。我地家長首先揀左學校（入form比邊D學校係我地決定既，呢個stage學校冇得say.)只有我地家長至知報邊間合自己。跟住學校應該有權揀返邊個入去讀。只有佢先知要邊D學生，我地要專重學校既決定。冇話叻唔叻，只有合唔合。就算英華唔比我個仔2nd in，當時只得rejected同冇得2nd既messages我地都冇失望，我地只係覺得ying wa走左寶。大家唔好因為未有offer而洩氣。上得來呢度收風share料討論argue.邊個唔係緊張下一代呢？有左呢個最重要元素，個小朋友將來一定好bright既！小一入邊間小學eventually又點會係the sole factor influencing their future 吖！

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Gloriasogashiwa 我都覺得YW走漏眼, 哈哈! 發表於 12-11-1 13:34

carolmum 我地只係覺得ying wa走左寶<----same here!!!...haha

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chunyatmama Can't agree more! 發表於 12-10-26 11:17

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sampapa 發表於 12-10-26 05:34
我絕對同意，品德和品行是用時間建立和身教。在某些特別的場合，無利益関你下閒談或八掛，學校是有特定比例 ...

可能你唔知，港島某著名男女小學，不但沒有話有九成多是以學術組別競爭入學，反而話有七成以関係(舊生等)收小一學生。
所以，唔收你，因為其餘三成學位，真係好少(可能低於百分之三)。
如果名門望族，政治權貴，都是必收生，咁就更慘，因為他們未必係舊生(以前住九龍)，但要攞埋其餘三成學位，非舊生、非名門望族、非政治權貴的人，入小一機會=中六合彩。

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albert831 但係又有好多平民報名發表於 12-10-30 17:52

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引用：Quote:sampapa+發表於+12-10-26+05:34+我絕

原帖由 4eyesDad 於 12-10-26 發表
可能你唔知，港島某著名男女小學，不但沒有話有九成多是以學術組別競爭入學，反而話有七成以関係(舊生等) ...

呢個我知，spccps吖嘛。不過說唔多於七成係有relationship, 並唔代表一定有七成係related.我見好多話阿哥阿姐喺道讀緊都話冇2nd in. 同埋有relation 都唔一定係名門望族。不過真係觀點與角度，我read到係佢比定心丸guarantee 最少有三成係新血，你就見到佢有好多大家冇份既必收位。人生就係咁有趣。大家隨緣啦。

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絕對同意, 我常覺得小朋友其實已不知不覺地為自己選擇了一條適合他的路, I am also top management of a multinational company and my husband also in management, my son has 2 native languages, but he's still 百無, haha, really don't know how to play this game!

Actually I think this is a really stupid and unfair game. Why some schools can select their students but some can't? Why all the ed"good' and reputable schools can turn into different systems and the others cannot? The government advertised that the lucky draw is to encourage fairness as education should apply to all on a fair basis. Then why the calculation of points? Isn't it not fair already for the unprivileged ones? I can still understand having another kid in the same school is more convenient for the parents for taking them to school, but what about the parents being old boy / old girl? or the siblings have already graduated? What is it to do with the kid that is going to study in that school? What is practicing now is totally the opposite of what they claimed. At the same time, there are a lot of backdoors and relationships going on. We heard a lot and seen a lot. If you had no relationship and your kid is just average then basically you are doomed. Also, all schools look for the same type of students - smart, outgoing outspoken aggressive etc, does it mean that the quiet and shy ones deserve no chance? Only extroverts will succeed?? Look, the kids are only 5 years old and what do they know? They should be having fun, getting to know themselves etc, shouldn't be burying the head among books or flash cards. I have seen kids who were problem kids when they were young but later turned into doctors lawyers etc. While some kids were "smart" kids when they were young but ended up being average. It's too early to deprive the chances that they deserve. Steve Jobs and Bill Gates also are geeks but they are super successful. Weird HK education system. I wanted to let my son learn more Chinese so we stayed in HK, it looks like we should leave HK earlier than I thought............

Sorry for being so opinionated, just want to vent it out as I am also one of the failure parent after working so hard, but I have to admit that I didn't force my son too much and he had a happy life in the past 5 years hehe However, after going through the interview process then I start questioning myself haha

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michelletang11 That's exactly what I want to point out 發表於 12-11-3 20:11

ps383 good sharing! 發表於 12-10-30 10:03

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其實今年（或者是今年開始），很多家長都大包圍，top kids都會考2,3線既直/私小，好多都報10幾間，1來可以當面試訓練，2來可作back up。就係因為大家既資訊越來越多，了解到出生人數多左、考多幾間唔會有蝕底......

到最後，其實學校收既可能都是同一班/同一類小朋友，所以他們都可能有幾個offer。

唉﹗作為"百無"既我，唯有"祝福"他們，早日找到最鍾愛既學校，好讓他們早日放位

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Gloriasogashiwa 幾千人, 塘水滾塘魚。發表於 12-11-1 13:38

albert831 sigh... 發表於 12-10-30 10:11

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Englandbaby 發表於 12-10-24 13:45
如果係一條龍校,我認為父母職業有很大關係, 老板,高層or HR應該有jetso, 因為學校會請有關家長(包括幼稚園 ...

if it's really helpful then i am happy (cos I am in HR senior mgt) but I don't think so cos i also only ate lemons haha

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my son surely is a slow heat child, i think he needs a super marathon hahahaha

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打打氣
http://www.edu-kingdom.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=2483521&extra=page%3D1

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絕對同意, 我常覺得小朋友其實已不知不覺地為自己選擇了一條適合他的路, I am ...

totally agree with you! Give me five!

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引用：其實今年（或者是今年開始），很多家長都大

原帖由 carchu12 於 12-10-30 發表
其實今年（或者是今年開始），很多家長都大包圍，top kids都會考2,3線既直/私小，好多都報10幾間，1來可以 ...

我講既可能令人唔開心。不過現象係有offer既通常有幾個。冇既就好多連2nd in 都未必有。呢樣唔可以blame 人話走後門或係好有米。走後門靠關係走得咁多間？multiple offer又個個住山頂？不見得。我相信應該係人地有一套較優勝既教doy方法，同埋人地準備得全面些。與其傷心無奈，不如主動beef up小朋友，同proactively 找心儀小學show 承意ensure 佢如有位就立即記得你重有效同實際。

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誠意，唔係承意。

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HelicopterDad 發表於 12-11-1 08:53
我講既可能令人唔開心。不過現象係有offer既通常有幾個。冇既就好多連2nd in 都未必有。呢樣唔可以blame 人 ...

Really well said. I believe most if not all schools are actually do know the kind of students/kids they want or fit to their school. The well prepared parents may have beef up the kids to be a bit more all rounded. Thus, they can have more offers. My son have one with him and we are satisfied with that school. Thus, we applied only three more to try. For other parents, add oil. Chances are reserved for those with preparation. So, get prepared. The musical chair game has just started!

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