入了心儀的小學卻感到不外如是或後悔 (苦與樂)

Charlotte_mom

thanks!! 我知呀, 個別assess丫嘛......
所以我都頭痕架
另外, 我真係希望佢講到做到, eventually收足100%上中學啦.....

TTJTMaMa 寫道:
HKUGA 1200 個簡120個, 係咪又好慘呢! Remind D mama - HKUGA 話明在校就讀的兄姊也不能100%收回弟妺. 直屬中學收番85% 以好好!

Sindy

究竟咩係appropriate time, by appropriate method and to an appropriate degree,個準則係點,邊個有資格講丫..............??係咪.........

細仔係最尾架啦,都仲可以有彈藥既....私/直我都想知下呀

daydream 寫道:
Sindy

無錯, 出黎社會做事都係咁殘酷,但去build up小朋友既 capacity將來去面對社會既殘酷係需要 at appropriate time, by appropriate method and to an appropriate degree,才不會有反效果,影響兒童心理健康成長,這不是可用三言兩語解釋, 而現代教育理念提倡的一條龍模式 (真正的那種,不是HKUGA的那種),正潮著正確方向而行.

我所講的學校都不是官津校, 有否官津校能做到,我不清楚.


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Sindy 寫道:
訓左個教起身.....咁多posting了

麟媽媽,
我唔識佢呢.......hehe

daydream,
係得香港讀書,就要面對現實,就算避得過,出黎社會做事都係咁殘酷,不過我都想知有邊間咁好....請pm我丫....thanks

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TTJTMaMa

Charlotte_mom,

Can you tell me more about HKUGA, Your daughter still in Primary 1, is still in honey moon period?  How many homework per day? Have test and exam?

Thanks
TTJTmama

Charlotte_mom

TTJTmama
Please check PM

kittylock

Hi Charlotte_mom,

Pls also PM me la....  

Haydenlau

Charlotte_mom,

Can U PM to me as well, many thanks !!!  :

kingkongdaddy

What kind of a distorted philosophy? Try to think of the following scenario:

If I am being healthy & strong, do you think that I am penalized for having the seats offered to the handicapped!!!
Of course not! When extra care is extended to the less fortunate, it is only a way to equalise the rights and duty of member in the society.

Another example:
My daughter suffer from car sick rather oftenly, thus I demand the bus mother to take extra care and attention (like sitting on the front )of her, at least for certain period of time until she get used to it. Is such arrangement penalizing other kids? Not at all ! Extra attention for the weak does not neccessaily mean less attention for the strong. The strong do not need such special arrangement!

stccmc 寫道:
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能力較弱之同學, 學校會比 extra attention and effort ,
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Extra attention for the weak => less attention for the strong.

So, if I am clever, or work very hard to become good at learning, I will be penalized by receiving less attention and effort?

TTJTMaMa

Carlotte,

I got it.  Thanks!

TTJTmama

kids626

Agreed.

daydream 寫道:
I don't think education is a zero sum gain. The teacher paying special attention to the weaks is a good role model to young kids on helping the needed ones.

The weak ones do not mean the capable but lazy ones. The teacher is clever enough to distinguish. For those capable but show behaviour problems, the teacher will teach them the appropriate discipline and manner.

I have said that the teacher will also praise those handworking or outstanding kids too.

Besides, if there is any kid identified to have talent in certain areas, the school also has a special team to help further develop the kids' potential.



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stccmc 寫道:

I was just thinking from the children's perspective.  Every child wants attention from their parents and teachers.  If I don't work hard & got poor grades, the teacher will pay more attention to me.  The lazier I become and pretend to be stupid, the more attention I will get.  What a nice thing!  What is the incentive for the children to become hard-working?

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kerobobo

點解.....佢成個唔同哂ge,唔通好似真矢老師咁...

KLLP

daydream,

can u pm me the names of those schools too!  The one you are talking is dream school for me.