小兒有讀寫障礙讀緊小二,學校想他轉校!

頭痛的媽媽

小兒有嚴重的讀寫障礙讀緊小二,學校想他轉校!又唔俾佢repeat,what should I do?????有冇人知那些school收 lee d 仔 ah??????????請幫忙

mrsphcheung

Must find an understanding and supportive school with less homework.  Which district do you live?

頭痛的媽媽

HI mrsphcheung,
   I live in Ma On Shan.Many..............THanks

pamam

I don't know about Ma On Shan, but I know Po Yan in Wong Tai Sin or Chi Wan Shan is very supportive to children with learning difficulties. I met a mom at OT and her son is studying there happily.

Dr.T

邊間學校咁無道德 :evil: ,可否pm俾我知?

頭痛的媽媽 寫道:
小兒有嚴重的讀寫障礙讀緊小二,學校想他轉校!又唔俾佢repeat,what should I do?????

頭痛的媽媽

Hi Dr.T,
事情係咁,佢係讀MOS 的道教聯合會純陽小學.小兒係小一派到這校時我已第一時間向校長、訓導主任及各科老師講他有這障礙的事,跟住小一的日子各科老師也很照顧小兒eg.放學後教他溫習......但差不多小一學期尾我問老師如想repeat P.1可以嗎?她說:升上小二有RC班,(即一班得十個讀書冇咁叻的同學一班教主科中、英、數)個時我信這老師,到升上小二後,那老師對我說:"對不起",原來政府"宿皮".2開不到RC班!P.2期間小兒因某些事情見了三次訓導主任,lee 三次我都有講他的讀書及上課情況.訓導主任問我如讀書還沒進展,有冇想過送他入特殊學校,我話冇想過,而她又笑住禮貌地說:冇想過都要想ga la!雖他聰明,但讀唔到、跟唔切咪辛苦!!叫我回家考慮下,但我話不會考慮.到第三次見她,我說想學校留他班,但她說最好不要la,學校唔想,重叫我如果搵到合適的學校,最好轉校la!
其實學校到現在都冇主動做調適,只有某一、兩位老師幫他,其實小兒已被label 左(蠢及冇記性),我真係好唔開心個仔被人話.被他們比較,因我小兒同大仔一間學校,只不過高一級,但大仔係考頭三名個班.so成日被比較.

Dr.T

1. 奇怪...因為讀寫障礙唔會一年班就診斷得到,個評估邊度做架?

2. 如果真的是讀障的話,亦不會有"特殊"學校專門收他們,這位主任似乎沒有這方面的應有的知識啊!

根據手頭上的名單,馬鞍山有不少學校都聲稱有參與融合教育計劃:雨川;莊啟程;循道衛理;主風及可暉,你可以打電話問一下.

頭痛的媽媽 寫道:
1...小兒係小一派到這校時我已第一時間向校長、訓導主任及各科老師講他有這障礙的事
2...訓導主任問我如讀書還沒進展,有冇想過送他入特殊學校...

頭痛的媽媽

Dr.T,
小兒在P.1下學期已在沙田尤德智能中心做,說他什麼都沒問題,只是他思想年齡比真實的年齡小兩歲.及有讀寫障礙 .其實當他讀K.2時數目1-10都不記得,英文A-Z已教哂,但頭10個字母也不知道.而中文字全部反轉寫.下學期就去健康院排見智能中心做初步評估,醫生都話他應該都係讀寫障礙,不過要確實都要他升上小一後才肯定.所以一到小一下學期智能中心就打電話俾我約小兒再進行評估la.

Dr.T

如果是智齡是比同齡兒童相差多達兩年已經是一個很大的問題!!!(我不知道為何始終有人偏好"相差幾多年"這種說法,尤其是衛生署 :evil: -為甚麼不簡單地說即是智商70-80左右???)

小朋友絕對不可以算是讀寫障礙,因為理論上是要IQ90以上才可界定為讀障...衛生署的人真是離晒大譜,簡直是誤診

如果你的描述是準確的話,小朋友應是學習遲緩而導致有讀寫上的困難.因為小朋友的理解及表達都比同班同學弱,故上課時因不明白而出現的學習及行為問題可想而知.單是針對他的讀寫只是本末倒置的做法.

學校如不能提供輔導,真是要早走早著.另一方面,即使能轉校,亦要在將來在上課前備課,讓他對課文內容有基本的了解,這一點對學習能力稍遜但又未至於智障的學生是十分重要的.

頭痛的媽媽 寫道:
...說他什麼都沒問題,只是他思想年齡比真實的年齡小兩歲.及有讀寫障礙 ...

頭痛的媽媽

Dr.T,
其實我現在應該做什麼呢?你給我的學校雨川、循道、主風都是功課多,及只收好成績及品行好的.他們怎會收個考第尾、兼專注力不足的學生!他們只不過聲稱罷了!Dr.T,你知道在Lam Tin or Yau Tong有適合他的學校嗎?

Dr.T

撇開政府那張真假(?)名單,馬鞍山靈糧堂呢?禾輋舊主風隔離那一間我去過感覺也不錯,但忘記了名字.

至於藍田/油塘區,如果考慮直資的話,黃乾亨可以一試.翠屏村佑華也是說得出做得到的學校...其他就不太清楚... :-|

頭痛的媽媽 寫道:
Dr.T,
其實我現在應該做什麼呢?...你知道在Lam Tin or Yau Tong有適合他的學校嗎?

頭痛的媽媽

Dr.T,
Wo Che 主風隔離那一間係咪崇真小學ah?而黃乾亨係咪即是臻美呢?我會去問下,多謝你給我的有用的information.Million..................Thanks :

Dr.T

真的不記得是否叫崇真 因為實在是多年前...是,黃乾亨即是臻美黃乾亨...

LA

Dr T,

just would like to know why u will quote 臻美黃乾亨. The reason i ask is becuase my child has speech and developemental delay for about<1 year. I plan to let him change school and repeat K2. 臻美SauWah has admitted him already, but i am still a bit hesitated as the reputation of 臻美 seems a bit controversial (may be because it is still new), while i plan to let my child go straight to their primary school if he can.

Meanwhile i plan to try apply Creative Primary School's Kindergarten (the one in Kln Tong), and Creative Kindergarten as well. My criteria is to choose kindergarten that has a higher chance to get admitted to their primary school.

Can u give me some advice? Tks a lot

LA

Dr.T 寫道:
真的不記得是否叫崇真 因為實在是多年前...是,黃乾亨即是臻美黃乾亨...

稚言治語

頭痛的媽媽 寫道:
小兒在P.1下學期已在沙田尤德智能中心做,說他什麼都沒問題,只是他思想年齡比真實的年齡小兩歲.及有讀寫障礙 .

搭咀姑娘：六歲小朋友智齡相差兩年還說"什麼都沒問題"？怎麼可以啊﹗孩子實在需要額外的資源﹗他們這樣做無疑延誤了孩子的發展。好離譜﹗

       (我第一次用這兩個表情符號，實在不能釋懷﹗)

Dr.T

據以往的觀察,對臻美不滿的家長通常希望它們是能夠在學術上更著緊一點,可能是他們最初誤解了學校辦學的原意...

對需要協助的小朋友來說,啟基會比啟思理想.

LA 寫道:
...but i am still a bit hesitated as the reputation of 臻美 seems a bit controversial ...Meanwhile i plan to try apply Creative Primary School's Kindergarten (the one in Kln Tong), and Creative Kindergarten as well.

Dr.T

你都咁話呢...真係都唔知佢地每月

LA

Dr T,

So how will u compare 臻美 and 啟基?

By the way, while i am asking for chanchanboy where to conduct private IQ test, 稚言治語 mentioned i can 'look for' u. My child is 4 yrs 9 mths now, when is the appropriate age for IQ test?

Look forward to your reply. tks.

LA

[quote]
Dr.T 寫道:
據以往的觀察,對臻美不滿的家長通常希望它們是能夠在學術上更著緊一點,可能是他們最初誤解了學校辦學的原意...

對需要協助的小朋友來說,啟基會比啟思理想.

Dr.T

相對上啟基較有系統及經驗.

至於智力測驗,因為孩子已4'9",等多3個月(5歲)便可做韋氏,從中得到的資料會更多.

LA 寫道:
...So how will u compare 臻美 and 啟基?...My child is 4 yrs 9 mths now, when is the appropriate age for IQ test?

LA

Tks Dr T,
1. how about Int'l Christian Quality Music School in Diamond Hill?
2. Re IQ test, i will contact u 3 mths later then.

LA

[quote]
Dr.T 寫道:
相對上啟基較有系統及經驗.

至於智力測驗,因為孩子已4'9",等多3個月(5歲)便可做韋氏,從中得到的資料會更多.